You are not married yet but someone (Your girlfriend) is calling you daddy. Or, your wife who sleeps with you, suddenly starts calling you daddy. These situations seem a little awkward but are real-life situations. She is saying this because she sees you as a boss, protector or dominant. She did not mean that you are the father of her family. She just wants to show that she is submissive to you. Daddy is just a pet name here, not more than that.
This is just a short answer. Let me describe it in detail and show you the ways by which you can respond to it.
what does daddy mean in a relationship
In a relationship, the daddy word does not mean that you are her real daddy (husband of her mommy). This is just a pet name given to you. This daddy word in a relationship shows power. When she thinks that you are protective, caring and in charge then she will call you daddy. Not all girls but some of the girls use this to make you feel more powerful.
If she is calling you daddy then this does not mean that she is fantasizing her daddy in you. I am not saying, this is not possible but chances are very low. She just wants you to take charge. Usually, daddy shows the dominant character. And if she is calling you daddy then she just wants you to be dominated. There can be many possible reasons why she is calling you daddy. Below are some of them.
Possible Reasons why your girl call you daddy
1. Because she likes it
Girls call their guy by many lovely and strange pet names like baby, honey, bobo, sona, cutie and etc. So, it is possible that she saw it in a movie that girl is calling his guy daddy. And she found it sexy or romantic. So, she wants to try this for you. She likes it and wants to call you daddy. I know that this is a strange pet name to be called. But don’t worry, she is not making you the daddy of her family.
This is just a lovely pet name for her. By the way, it is up to you whether you like it or not. If you do not like it then you can stop her from this. If she stopped then that will be a miracle. 😉 Because girls never understand anything. At least mine never. 😉
2. She thinks it turns you on
You know, many men get turned on by this small word ‘daddy’. She might have heard it from any movie, magazine or her friend. And she thinks that this will work the same on you. Maybe her friend calls her boyfriend by this pet name and her boyfriend gets excited by this. So, she suggested your girl to try this and your babe is doing this to make you excited.
If you like it then that’s fantastic. And if you do not like it then let her know that you don’t like it. If you don’t tell her then she will keep thinking that you are liking it. And she will keep saying this to you. So, it’s better to let her know what is your choice and she will find something else for you.
3. She has seen it in a porn video
Almost all of today’s generation who have access to a smartphone/Tablet/PC and an internet connection get inspired by porn videos. These videos seem so attractive that people start thinking that all act is real. And exactly this is the intention of them. These videos are made to please and attract you so you get used to it.
So, this is possible that your girl has one of the videos in which a girl is shouting the daddy word. And this made her think that this is sexy. Don’t get surprised that she watches porn. This is not only made for dudes. These are made for both. So, this is possible that she found it sexy and started calling you daddy. Now it is all up to you whether you like it or not.
4. You are the daddy of her children
If your wife called this word on the bed and you already have children then it is possible that she is calling this because you are the daddy of her children. She does not mean that you are her daddy. She means that her children call you daddy and so she called so. She means you are the daddy and she is mommy. By the way, if your wife calls you daddy then you should not worry because it is a sensual word if your wife calls it to you.
5. You are very protective and caring to her
You know what is the common thing that all daddies do. They protect and care for us. Whenever a child is with his dad, he/she feels protected and safe. And this can be the possibility that she calls you daddy. If you are very protective and caring to her then this reminds her of her daddy. And so she calls you daddy. But don’t get confused by it that she is making you her father. She is calling you daddy just to show that she feels safe with you. There is nothing to do with her family daddy.
Many guys start thinking that his girl has a fantasy to sleep with her father. But don’t doubt her like this. This thing has the very little possibility and you should not think like this. She loves you and wants to show you that she trusts you that you will take care of her.
6. You are dominant on bed
You know, many girls like to be submissive when it comes to sexual intimacy. These girls like to surrender themselves to their partners while on the bed. So, there are possibilities that your girl is submissive. And she likes the submissive/dominance game. She loves when you dominate her while in your private time. But this does not mean that she is giving you permission to be dominant all the time.
This offer is for private time only. She calls you daddy because daddy shows the power of the master. And she wants you to be her master while intercourse. She may tease you calling daddy in a public place just to tease you. So, if she likes to call you daddy and loves to be submissive then enjoy it. There is nothing to worry about…only things to enjoy. 😉
How to respond when a girl calls you daddy
When suddenly you hear the word by your girlfriend/wife then suddenly mind getting stuck. Men start thinking if she is calling me daddy then what should I call her. Should you call her daughter. Seriously not, never use this word if she calls you daddy. It is a big mood spoiler.
But the points move in the man’s brain is “if I am her daddy then ultimately she becomes my daughter”. Let me tell you one thing. You are not her real dad and she is not your daughter. She is using this word because she just wants to romanticize the mood. There are many awesome lines that can make her crazy for a while.
If she is calling you daddy then you can use some of the below lines.
- First, the most important point to keep in mind is “don’t call her daughter”.
- If she is getting romantic and calls you daddy then you can say, “Daddy loves you”. Girls love this line because they want to be loved.
- If you guys are on the bed and fuking each other and then she calls you daddy then you can say, “You make daddy feels good”.
- If she is calling you daddy in a public place then you can use “Baby girl” for her. This small little word can make her crazy.
These are just some most commonly used replies of the word daddy. But you can find your own which works best for you because many awesome sexy words are still available in this world.
