You started dating a guy and later found that he is still in touch with his ex-girlfriend. And then a question arises in your mind. What the heck, why is he still in touch with her? Don’t get mad, it’s normal and there can be many reasons for this. This most common reason is this. Guys stay in touch with their ex-girlfriends because they want to keep a backup. When they get single then they can get back in the relationship with her. Or, if got an opportunity then hoop up with her.
I know it feels creepy but this is one of the reality. And girls do the same with their exes too. Don’t think now that your guy is cheating you. There are also many other reasons for this. Above I mentioned is the common one. Your guy can be a good person. So, here are the most common reasons why guys stay in touch with their exes.
Reasons why he stays in touch with her ex:
1. They just stay in touch with each other
While in the relationship we people share many beautiful memories. And after breakup some time it is hard to forget them. So, this can be his case. Maybe he has some memories which he can’t forget. And maybe this is the same case with the other side. So, in this situation, it is a little hard to forget each other even when you are in a relationship. So, they may be in casual touch with each other.
2. They are friends now
Every breakup is not bad. Many guys break up with each other’s concerns. So, in this type of breakup, they became good friends. Because they know each other very closely so they understand each other and become good friends.
It is also possible that they were friends first then they got into a relationship. And noting worked between them later they became friends again. Whatever the story may be, But the main point is that they are friends now (only friends). A man and woman can be friends.
3. Your guy has common friends with her ex
If he had a girlfriend whose friends are his friend. Then this situation can be a little tough to make the distance between them. Because even when they don’t want to know about each other, they will hear it. They both have mutual friends. And they will let them know about each other. Because all friends are assholes. They love to make fun of their friends.
So, don’t get worried because the chances are that they don’t like each other. But they have to be in touch with each other because their friends are making so. So, at last, they decided to be just friends.
4. He still loves her
This is one of the most common reasons. And the maximum chances of being this is when his ex broke up with him. But don’t worry because you will never know (at least there are very fewer chances) that she broke up with him. Because women never take the blame on them. So, you may be knowing that your guy broke up with his ex-girlfriend. And still, we men are called dogs.
So, if this is the case that she broke up with him then it may be possible that your guy still loves her. To check this just look at his facial expressions when he hears about her ex’s boyfriend. How is she happy with her ex-boyfriends? These types of things will suddenly change his facial expression.
5. He can hook up again
As I already said above that he is in touch with her ex-girlfriend so he can hook up again with her. He is in touch with her and waiting for the right moment. A moment where she gets emotional and he will take the perfect benefit of that opportunity.
For example, Just take an ideal condition where his ex’s boyfriend cheated her. This situation is perfectly ideal to get hooked up. So, if he is in touch with her then chances are he want to hook up again.
6. He is connected to her family
Have you ever heard of those type of relations where their families already know each other? I bet you have seen many. So, if he was in that type of relationship where he already knows his ex-girlfriend’s family then it is a little tough not to get in touch with each other. So, if this is the situation then don’t doubt him because he could be a good guy. He has just no other option to be in touch with her ex-girlfriend.
7. The guy is still attracted to her ex
If his ex-girlfriend was super hot then he is still obsessed with her. We men are visualizing creatures. We love to visualize our past moments. And if his ex was such hot then even I can imagine how sexy it can be on the bed. I just mean he misses the times with his ex on the bed. And he still wants to do the same. And this is why he is in touch with her. Being patient and waiting for the right chance to get laid again.
8. So, He can get back in the relationship with her (just as a backup)
This is the most common reason why guys keep in touch with their ex-girlfriends. Because they keep a backup plan ready. If they get single again then they can get back in a relationship easily. Because no one likes to be single and lonely. This case is not with the boys only, girls do the same.
No doubt they can get in a relationship with some other girl. There are many on this earth. Then why again his ex? The simple answer is, a new girl will take time. But if it is about the ex, then they already know each other. She already knows the guy. So it is a lot easy to get into and get laid on the bed (comparing the new one).
9. He wants to make her feel jealous
If your guy had a very bad breakup with her and she left him just for something he had not at that time like money, body, success, etc. Then he is in touch with her just to show her that what he got now. He has achieved or trying to achieve it, so he can show her that look what thing he is now. If this is the case then don’t doubt him. Instead, help him to achieve what he wants.
What you have to take care of
Now you have seen all the possible reasons why he is in touch with her ex. And you will see here that some reasons are okay but some are risky. Those reasons can snatch him away from you.
The problem here is you can’t ask him directly why is he doing so? Because he will never tell you the truth. And if he is saying the truth then there is no guarantee that he is true. And asking this to him will also affect your relationship. So, what is the solution for this?
I have a perfect solution for this. What if he starts thinking about you only and never thinks about anyone else? What if you got some ultimate power that will keep him obsessed with you? Yes, this is possible and he will start thinking about you only. Check out the below article to make him mad for you and keep him obsessed with you till you want.