Keeping the romance alive while being pregnant is a little tough work. At this time you experience very different situations. Especially when pregnant for the first time. You don’t feel like being romantic while in the situation and you also care a lot of your baby so you don’t take chances with it. So, in this blog, I will show the ways by which you can keep the romance alive while being pregnant.
If you want to romance with your husband while pregnant then there are no specific compulsory tasks you need to perform. Try everything which keeps you and your husband close. Put all the disturbing elements down and spend some quality time with each other.
There are many things you can do together to spend quality time with each other. But it is not possible to mention all here. So, I have picked some best things you can do to be happy with him. I will first explain why you should focus on him too and then I will show the ways, explaining each of them. So, keep reading. 🙂
Why it is important to give time to your husband?
I know you are going through a very tough time. Pregnancy is not the tough only but it is going to be one of the memorial moments of your life. Many women even say that pregnancy was the best time of their life. So, in the future, you are going to remember the time and get happy. It is a golden hour for you and so do he.
I know that you want your baby safe and so you do not do anything which can hurt your baby. You only want to focus on your child. But your husband is also part of it. He is doing his best to make you happy. He is also going through a very different time. So, he deserves your love. And you should collect memories now because you are going to miss these days.
So, you guys need to be close. By the way let me tell you one thing, sex in pregnancy will not hurt your baby. Sex is all normal till your doctor has suggested you not to do this. I will explain more about it below. But please, enjoy your time with him. Create memories so you can remember them in the future.
7 ways to keep your husband happy while pregnancy
1. Try to have romantic date
The first thing which can keep your relationship alive is a romantic date. You need some time to spend with him. Tell him to plan a date in a romantic place. By the way, it is not required to go out for a romantic date. He can also plan a candlelight dinner at your home. The place does not matter. The only thing matter is your love for him.
2. Communicate clearly
Communication is the key. You need to tell him what you are feeling, what you want, what you expect from him and everything. He has never been in this condition before. So he won’t know what to do. He is not a woman that he can understand your feelings.
If you want him to feel that then you need to tell him everything. No matter good or bad. The only thing that matters is communication. While pregnancy women feel many good things which a man can’t. To feel those things he also has to get pregnant. 😉
For example, When the baby kicks into your stomach. Your man can’t feel that. How will he? Only you the one who knows that he kicked. So, you need to tell him that your baby kicked. These things look small but these small things can make everyone happy. So, share all your feeling with him. Enjoy them together because it will keep your romance alive.
3. Visit your doctor together
When you are at your doctor’s clinic then it is very important that you guys are together. If he is busy at work then ask him to take time for this. When you guys are together then you can feel what your doctor is saying. No matter it is good or bad. But it will keep your relationship strong. And after a few years, you guys will remember this time because it creates a memory.
4. Plan a trip
It is very important that the mother should be happy while being pregnant. And if you are pregnant then you should spend some quality time with the baby’s father. You guys need some private time to enjoy it. And for that what can be better than a trip. Plan a safe trip to spend some quality time together. Before planning a trip first consult your doctor if it is safe for you.
5. Be flirty
Being flirty is one of the best ways to show your husband that you are still attracted to him. Sex is not always required to make someone feel that you love him. A line of flirty text can also show him your love. In fact, it can much better because it makes him think about you all the time.
If he working in his office. Then send him some flirty line. He will start thinking about you. Even there can be those situations when his boss will ask, “why are you smiling all the time”. Flirting has enormous power, you just have to use it properly.
6. Have sex
Sex is the best form to get close. No doubt that you are careful about your baby but your husband also needs time. By the way, pregnancy sex does not harm your baby if you are normal. For safety just ask your practitioner about it. If he/she gives you the green signal then you are ready to go.
Pregnancy sex has many benefits. It helps to better sleep. It is a mood enhancer that will keep you happy. If you are happy and taking a good rest then it is best for the baby.
Make your mind ready for sex
Some women think that if they sex while being pregnant then the husband’s boner will touch the baby’s head. It is just a myth not more than that. Your baby is all safe inside your belly. First, put this point in mind that if your doctor has given you the green signal then it is totally safe.
I know that you are very excited about your new relationship with your baby. But you can’t ignore your relation with your husband. He also needs some of your time. He also misses you and so you should enjoy time with him. If he will be happy then he will keep you happy. And if you are happy means your baby is happy. 🙂
Sex positions to try while pregnant
Sometimes it is difficult to have sex while being pregnant. Now, you are not in your regular condition so you can have fun as you want. That’s why I have selected some of the best-suited positions to have sex while pregnant.
Partner on top: If you want it with ease then go with the partner on top position (missionary). But while in this position keep in mind that your partner should not put his weight on you. Because it will press your belly and is not good for you. Try to not use this position after the fourth month of pregnancy.
Woman on top: This position keeps your belly safe because it does not put any pressure on your belly. You are on the top so everything is in your control.
This is one of the best options. Because in this position there is no pressure on your belly or your back. It is very comfortable for you but if you feel any pain then put a pillow between your knees and let your partner lie behind you.
Rear entry position:
This position is also the best because your partner is not around your belly. He is behind your back. you can do it in standing or sitting on your partner’s lap. Just make sure that your body is not holding any stress.
7. Learn together about pregnancy
While you are pregnant you can’t do any work. Basically all day you just have to relax. In this time you can learn about pregnancy with your husband. You need to learn because we fear only those things of which we have no knowledge. You can ask your parents about this. They will give very valuable tips because they have experience. They have grown you, right.
Or, you can learn from some medical professionals. You are in an online era now and so you can learn everything just sitting on your couch. If you wanna learn about pregnancy then you must look at the Health pregnancy summit created by 20+ medical and health professionals for a healthy pregnancy. Keep learning and have a cute baby. 😍