Marriage is a very big decision. This is one of those choices that can change your whole life. So, If you want to know how much time he will take to decide it then there is no exact answer. The marriage timing depends on the personal connection between you and him. If you guys truly understand each other then it is already decided. And if there is something left then the marriage time can be anything.

I am a man and I know how it goes. Our feeling changes by time and the emotional factor with the girl. If he is thinking of marriage now then there are chances that he will say no after some time. Or, if he is saying no but after some time he can be made to marry you. I just want to say that it is totally in your control. How you are with him. So, here we will look for many ideas. How much time does he take to identify? Signs he wants to marry you are not. And what you can do to make him ready. 😉

How much time Does It Take a Man to Know That He Wants to Marry You?

As I said there is no specific time for this. But you can say that on average we take almost one year. But don’t stick to this number. He can get ready even instantly or he can take years. This timing varies man to man and his intentions and personal situations.

Have you ever heard the word “arranged marriage”? If you know this word then you already know that this is an instant marriage decision system. If this case man takes almost no time to decide for marriage. And also there are many cases where they take years. So, if you guys are already in a relationship then many factors matter here. How much time you have been? How is your chemistry with him? What is the level of trust factor between you guys?

So, if you are dating him for some months then I will say give him some time. It is a very big decision and let him take his time. But if you guys are together for years then there is something wrong. So, it is time to take some action. Try to know what he wants. Next, I will show you some signs which show he doesn’t want to marry you. Go and match them with him to know what he wants.

Signs he doesn’t want to marry you

a) He makes excuses why he can’t marry you

If he is not intended to marry you then he will always give an excuse for this. But the truth is if any guy wants to marry you then he will find any way for that. If he wants you in his life then the problems do not matter for him. And if he is making excuses then you must think about that.

b) He never wants to get married

In a long list of excuses, this is one of the biggest. Because this excuse directly attacks the root of the marriage. If he wants to be single all of his life then how can you force him? And if you are forcing him then you will be called a mean. So, don’t get into this trap. This directly means he will not marry you.

c) He changes the subject every time you talk about marriage

If we humans don’t like the idea of something then we try to jump on the other track. And he is doing the same thing. He will try everything possible just to change the marriage point. He will try to distract you by any means possible. In that case, he is ready to talk on any topic in this world other than the marriage.

d) He is afraid of commitments

Those guys who don’t want to marry you will never commit. He does not want to commit because at last, you can’t blame him that he is wrong. If he never commits for anything then how will you say that we were planning for the marriage? So, If he never commits then be alert. This could be a wrong sign for what you want.

If these things match with your guy then it means he is not intended to marry you. But don’t get disappointed, I have something for you which can change the whole result. And if none matches then its a good sign. Now it is time to check whether he is neutral or interested.

Some Signs he wants to marry you

How to decide he is ready or not for marriage

1) He makes the future plans

If your guy loves to talk about the future with you then chances are he is thinking about the marriage. He may be saying like you guys will go when you will b old. How you and her mother will fight each other and he will manage everything. Anything like these small thoughts. If he is saying these types of things then get happy. It’s a piece of good news. 🙂

2) He talks about the future kids

Did he say ever that what will be his kid’s name? How many kids does he want? How many boys and how many girls? If he says how he will play with those cute little buddies, then chances are he want to marry you and want these small kids from you.

3) He is planing for a new house

If your guy has ever said to you about any house he is planning, then he is thinking about you. He says how many bedrooms will be there. A kitchen for you where you will cook and he will see you. A well-furnished shower where you guys will bath together. Separate rooms for kids. Whatever it can be. But the good thing is, he is serious about you.

4) He wants to introduce you to his parents

Has your boyfriend ever tried to introduce you to his parents? If he is doing so then he wants to marry you. He wants you and his parents to get familiar with each other. Because he wants his family lives forever with love, peace, and harmony. So, respect his feelings and accept his personal proposal.

5) He misses you all the time

If he misses you all the time and always ready to talk to you then he wants you. You matter a lot for him that’s why he always thinks about you. He calls you while in office, in the room and in the bathroom. He just thinks about you everywhere and can’t imagine his life without you.

6) He only sees you

If you guys are moving in a part. And there are many sexy girls in theirs. But you guy only sees you with love. Then this guy is in true love. And he will try his best to live life with you. You are the prettiest woman in this world for him. And he will definitely marry you.

7) He shares all of his thoughts with you

Men never share all thoughts with everyone. He tries to hide them and share them with only a few. And those few are very special to him. So, if you are on the list of those few then it is the best thing for you. You are someone whom he trusts a lot. And so he has no issue to marry with you. You guys can also be good friends but at least there are chances of getting married.

8) He wants to meet your parents

Did he ever say that he wants to meet your parents? If he has said this line then he is thinking about the marriage. First, he wants to get familiar with your parents. So, that he can ask easily for the marriage.

9) He is trying to figure out your ring finger size

You know marriage rings are made for the ring finger. 😉
And if he is trying to figure out your ring finger size then he is thinking to make one for you. And I think you already know what it means. So, go and celebrate, its time to get happy. And don’t forget to invite me. 😉

10) He buys you gifts for no reasons

Do he always buys you gifts for no reason? If he do then this is a very good sign. He thinks investing on you and he are the same. He truly accepts you from his heart and always want to make you happy. I do not mean that if your boyfriend is not giving you any gift then he don’t love you. This is just a sign. And it is not compulsory.

11) He has already said that he wants to marry you

What can be better than a clear indication? It is best if he has already said that he wants to marry you. Now you have a direct clear sign that he wants you in his life.

Final word:

If you want to be married, I am 100% specific that you will certainly be. When the moment is right. As opposed to hurrying the procedure, delight in actually getting to know the man you enjoy. When you’re both ready, and also when those attractive stars line up, you’ll have a wedding event– as well as a marriage– never to be forgotten.

But as I said I start that man’s mind change time to time and by your actions too. So, if he is ready now for marriage then don’t get over confident that he is fixed now. He can change. Or, he is not ready for marriage. In this case I have something for you by which you can control any man’s mind. Here you will find all the secrets of man’s mind and how to control them.

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Mak Adikami

Mak Adikami, Co-Owner, and Blogger at I love to write blogs on LoveGrabber from my personal experience. I love to find and research topics related to relationships.

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