When you go to buy anything for the first time it becomes a little confusing which to buy. And as it comes to a sex toy like a dildo then this becomes even more confusing. After all, you are about to buy a thing that will penetrate your body. For the first time, girls get confused a lot.

Which size they should go for, what should be the color, and most importantly what should be the material of the toy? These all questions are important. If I give you your answers in one line then I will say:

A first-time girl who is just about to try a dildo should buy one that is small in size (4 – 6 inches) and thinner in girth (up to 1.5 inches). The toy should be made of a non-toxic substance so it doesn’t harm your body. And a lube is extremely important for someone who is about to try her first dildo.

Is that it? Yup, in short, the above line is enough but I will suggest you read the whole article. Because I will be explaining everything about a dildo when you are going to buy it for the first time. First I will show you the points you should consider while you are looking for a dildo. And then I will give you my best recommendations. So, should we start our journey… 😊

Some important things to look for before buying a dildo for the first time:

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1. Size

The very first consideration should be the size. If you are going to use it for the first time then you need something small in size. Because bigger things are for the experienced receivers😋. But what should be the size of the dildo?

The dildo you are choosing now should be less than 6 inches in length. You can go for the longer one you can handle. The reason why I am saying to go with a small one is that a big dildo comes with max girth. And you can’t handle a girthy dildo. So, look for a small one at the start.

2. Girth

This is the most important thing to notice while you are buying a first-time dildo. The less girthy it is, the easier it becomes to handle. But you need to maintain a limit because if it comes to a girth of a finger then there is no point to buy a dildo, Right? So, I will say 1.5 inches for a first-time dildo is an ideal girth diameter.

As you come down to this mark it will become easier to handle and as you go up it becomes harder. So, try to look for a dildo that is ideally 1.5 inches in girth size.

3. Material

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While you are buying a dildo it is important to consider the material of the dildo. Because there are many dildos available in the market that is made up of toxic materials. But why do the manufacturers use toxic materials that can harm the body?

Because these toxic substances cost less. The is a toxic substance named Phthalate. These are generally used in the cheaper sex toys to make the toy flexible. So, if you are buying a very cheap dildo then the chances are that the phthalate is used in it.

So, which material you should go with to be safe? Go with Silicone, metal, glass, or any other with no toxin in it.

Note: If you want a flexible dildo the Silicone should be your first choice as a toy material.

4. Vibration

Vibration is an optional feature you want or not in a dildo. If you buy a vibrating dildo then you can experience some extra pleasure. But as you are starting it can be a little difficult to handle. So, it is all up to you if you want it or not.

5. Lubes

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Ah, lubes…These are very important to look for. Generally, girls forget about the lubes while shopping for a dildo for the first time. But these are extremely important. Not all lubes are good for all types of dildo. You need to be careful about the lube type because some types can react with the toy material.

For example, a silicone-based lube can degrade sex made of silicone. Generally, water-based lubes are the safest option we have. I have made a whole guide about the lubes and also have given my best recommended lubes in it. You can check out the lube selection guide here.

Our best recommended dildo for a first time girl:

So, above are the things you must look for while looking for a first-time dildo. I have done my own research and handpicked some best recommendations for you. These are one of the best options available in the market. No doubt that there can be many other good ones but I have selected only 5 so, you don’t get confused much between them. Below are my recommended best 5:

1. Fun Factory Amor

The very first suggested dildo is Amor made by Fun Factory. Why this is a perfect first-time dildo? Because it fulfills every criterion we have. This is made up of the best quality medical-grade silicone. The size and girth are ideally perfect. It comes in two colors (Black and Pink) and you can select any you like.

It has a curved shape that hits the right spot in your vagina for some extra pleasure. And it is a waterproof toy so you can enjoy it to your max. Below are all the specifications listed to make your choice even easier.

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Full Information:

  • Product Name: Fun Factory Amor
  • Size: 5.3 Inches
  • Girth (Diameter): 1.4 Inches
  • Available Colors: Pink, Black
  • Material: 100% medical-grade silicone
  • Suction Cup: Yes
  • Vibration: No
  • Features: Curved, Water-proof, Smooth and flexible
  • Regular Price: $75.99

2. Blush Novelties B Yours Sweet ‘n Hard

As the name suggests it is the cute one on the list. Sweet but hard. This dildo is made with a very fine detailing that includes veins, realistic skin texture, and balls. That means while inserting it in yourself you can have a feeling of a real guy above you and giving you incredible pleasure.

The best thing that makes it even more attractive is its transparent colored look. It can be a great pick for your starting collection.

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Full Information:

  • Product Name: Blush Novelties B Yours Sweet ‘n Hard
  • Size: 7″ (5.5″ insertable)
  • Girth (Diameter): 1.5 Inches
  • Available Colors: Electric Blue, Pink
  • Material: Phthalate free PVC
  • Suction Cup: Yes
  • Vibration: No
  • Features: Sturdy Suction Cup Base, Good detailing (veins, realistic skin texture, and balls)
  • Regular Price: $32.99

3. Blush Novelties Naturally Yours Vibrating Ding Dong

Now this one got a special feature. Do you remember that I told you above that if you want a vibrating dildo then you can have one, it’s all your choice? So, this dildo is to satisfy that need. This vibrating Ding Dong is the perfect vibrating dildo for the first-timers.

And the best this about it is you can separate the bullet (The item that vibrates) from the dildo in the toy. That means you can even use the dildo and bullet separately if you want. You are getting 3 in 1 (Normal dildo, bullet, and vibrating dildo) at a minimal price point.

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Full Information:

  • Product Name: Blush Novelties Naturally Yours Vibrating Ding Dong
  • Size: 6.5 Inches (4.5″ Insertable)
  • Girth (Diameter): 1.1 Inches
  • Available Colors: Clear
  • Material: Phthalate and latex free TPE
  • Suction Cup: No
  • Vibration: Yes
  • Features: 10 Vibrating functions (5 vibrating speeds and 5 unique vibrating patterns), Dildo and bullet (vibrating bullet) can be used seperately, Curve in shape
  • Regular Price: $50.99

4. Glas Chili Pepper Glass Dildo

Have you ever thought that chili can please you up to your limit? If not, then get ready because this chili can change your mindset. This Chili Pepper is a glass dildo made by Glas. This dildo has a very sensual shape that can touch every point of your vagina.

And the transparent look adds some additional beauty to it. So, if you are a vegetable lover then you must give it a try.

chili peper dildo

Full Information:

  • Product Name: Glas Chili Pepper Glass Dildo
  • Size: 8 Inch (6″ Insertable)
  • Girth (Diameter): 1.4 Inch
  • Available Colors: Transparent
  • Material: Glass
  • Suction Cup: No
  • Vibration: No
  • Features: Fracture-resistant, Compatible with all lubes, Sensual Shape
  • Regular Price: $34.99

5. Icicles No 60 Beginner’s Slimline Realistic Glass Dildo

This toy is one of the slimmest dildos in the market with just 1 Inch girth. It should be your first option if you want something very easy to handle. The dildo is made up of glass and has a transparent look with a curved shape to target your g-spot.

Mean this dildo is a perfect combination of, easy to handle, a good look, and an intense pleasure. So, the final choice is yours, gift yourself the best.

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Full Information:

  • Product Name: Icicles No 60 Beginner’s Slimline Realistic Glass Dildo
  • Size: 5.5 Inches
  • Girth (Diameter): 1 Inch
  • Available Colors: Transparent
  • Material: Glass
  • Suction Cup: No
  • Vibration: No
  • Features: Cleverly curved for explosive G-Spot or P-Spot stimulation, Can have any lube, Great for temperature play
  • Regular Price: $33.99

Conclusion:

So, these are my best picks for you and I hope that you like one of them. But if you are still confused that which one to pick then let me give you a clear suggestion.

If you want the best simple first-time dildo then Fun Factory Amor is for you.

Blush Novelties B Yours Sweet ‘n Hard can be a cute collection on your list.

If you need a vibrating first-time dildo then Blush Novelties Naturally Yours Vibrating Ding Dong is for you.

Glas Chili Pepper Glass Dildo is a good option for a fantasy play. (And the best thing about this is, no one will doubt that it’s a dildo)🤭

And finally, if need something that should be very easy to handle then select Icicles No 60 Beginner’s Slimline Realistic Glass Dildo

So, that’s it. Wish you an awesome first-time dildo experience… 🙂

Sam Kryplone

Hey! This is Sam. The Co-owner of Lovegrabber. I love to write about relationship stuff. But I want to confess one thing that I am not any so-called relationship expert. I write everything on the basis of my internet research and my real-life experience or the experience with my past relationships. So, read and have fun.

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