A relationship is such a beautiful thing that can’t be explained. But this is only when everything works well. But if your relationship is not going as it should be then a relationship can be a most depressing thing.

So, today I will talk about one of the common issues in a relationship that many couples face. And this is the issue of a kiss. Many times it is seen that women do not get ready to kiss. This is a very small thing but still, they don’t get ready easily.

Women only kiss those or get in a physical relationship with those whom they trust. So, if a woman is not ready to kiss you means you need to do more work to win her trust.

Actually, this is not the only reason that is possible. So, I have selected the 9 most common reasons why a woman does not get ready to kiss a man. So, if your girl is not getting ready to kiss you then one of these can be a reason.

1. She is not ready yet

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The first reason possible is that she is not ready yet to kiss you. By this I mean you have just started your relationship and your relationship has not reached that stage that she will get ready to kiss you. So, in that case, just wait and give her some time. Let her know you a little more and when she will get confirmation about you then she will kiss.

But if your relationship has been more than 3 months old then this is not the case. 3 months are enough for a relationship to get on the kissing stage.

2. She has never kissed anyone

The second reason is that she has never kissed anyone. And if this is the case then all game is in your hand. Now, this is all up to you how you manage her. It is your responsibility to make her comfortable to kiss you. If you ask me that “Sam, what should I do in this situation”. Then I will say go with the step by step process.

Follow the below steps if you want to procede forward in your kissing problem.

  1. Start with kissing on her head. Just kiss her on her head when you get into some emotional time. When you kiss a girl on her forehead then she gets the message that you care about her.
  2. Then kiss on her chick someday. By this, you are seeding your kissing tree. This chick kiss will lead you to the French kiss.
  3. Now give her a light kiss on her lips some other day. Just touch your lips with her and take it back. If her reaction is good means you have touched the ground and only the last step left.
  4. Now this time just for another light kiss but don’t get back this time. Start kissing her lips. You can learn here how to kiss. And keep enjoying the moment. If you have followed the above step then now it has very less chances that she will say no this time.

3. You try to kiss her when people around

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Hey, if you fall into this category then this is not her fault. You need to take care of her feelings too. If she is not comfortable kissing in a public place then you should not force her.

Instead chose a private place for her. The best place is at your house or in your car. Here she will feel most safe and then she will definitely kiss you.

4. You never show her your emotional angle

Women are emotional. They take every decision being emotional. So, if you are thinking then without getting into an emotional angle you can get everything then it is a little difficult.

Yes, it is possible but chances are rare. So, if you want to kiss her and enter into her heart then show your emotional angle to her. Show her how much you love her.

5. She is not seduced yet

Actually, a kiss also requires some seduction. So, if you are trying to kiss her without getting into a romantic zone then you are doing it wrong. You need to seduce her.

If she is not seduced enough then she will not get ready to kiss you. To seduce her you can try some flirting. Do something romantic that will make her romantic and will finally lead you to your kiss dream.

6. You are a dead kisser

Enjoy kissing moment

Do you know who is a dead kisser? Someone who kisses like a dead. I mean when you kiss her you show no excitement, no emotion, or no seduction. If you are just kissing her like you are a dead body then you are a dead kisser.

Kissing is not about just touching two lips. It is that time where you share your emotional as well as physical moment. So, you need to show her that you are alive. Show some reactions, show some movements.

7. You keep your lips dry while kissing

This looks small but one very common reason why a woman can say no to kiss you. If your lips are dry as paper then no one can enjoy your lips. If you want a girl to kiss you then keep your lips hydrated. Use a lip balm to keep your lips soft. Because soft lips attract kisses.

8. Your mouth smells like a gutter

When you are going for a kiss then your mouth should smell fresh. Don’t go for a kiss, chewing some food in your mouth. Your mouth should be fresh and for that, you can clean your mouth with some water. Then use a mouth freshener to make it fresh. Just be such sexy that she can’t resist herself.

9. you are very bad at kissing game

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Now, this is the last but the most important one. If you have kissed your girlfriend before but now she is saying no to kissing then chances are you are bad at kissing. Your kissing game is very bad. We all know that the first impression is the last impression. And if she is rejecting to kiss you after kissing you some time means there is some issue with you.

If you have no idea how to kiss then you should read our article on kissing. I am damn sure that after reading that article your kissing game will improve a lot. So, go and start reading the kiss blog and be a kissing master.

Learn to kiss here: How To Kiss Someone For The First Time? 13 Steps To Be A Good Kisser?


So, I have covered all the reasons why your girlfriend is not getting ready to kiss you. A kiss is your right if you are in a relationship with someone. But if she is not getting ready for this then you can break up with him.

This is totally your right. If she doesn’t agree with this then go and find a new girlfriend on the best dating website on the internet. Find someone who can care about your feeling and needs.

Sam Kryplone

Hey! This is Sam. The Co-owner of Lovegrabber. I love to write about relationship stuff. But I want to confess one thing that I am not any so-called relationship expert. I write everything on the basis of my internet research and my real-life experience or the experience with my past relationships. So, read and have fun.

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